what kind of problems that worries our teenagers nowadays..........

well... I think that is kind problem or worries happens to most of us because our parent are worried about what kind of friends that we are along wif and if is only the ordinary friend relates with the opposite sex... what can you should do if u are the one facing this kind of problems....

actually this kind of case I take from the website(in Chinese)...is site is some sort of ...how to say....erm..... is like yahoo answer where u can post ur question and there will be many anonymous ppl will give u the answers to the question you ask.....sometimes I did that when i was facing some computer technical problem......

so tha question is.....( i think is a girl)

怎样才能让大人相信自己与异性只是普通朋友关系？
How can let adult believe that oneself is only the ordinary friend relates with the opposite sex

每一次说出去玩，大人们总是要问和男生还是女生，要去哪玩，有多少人，男生有几个还是各占一半……总之是如果男生多的话，就一定不准出去，我知道他们是为 我好，但我们都是很好的朋友，根本就不会有什么事，可他们为什么老不相信呢，总认为男生女生单独在一起就不会有什么好事。我该怎么做，才能让他们不再怀疑
Each time when I said I am going out, parents(mostly mothers) always ask how many people going ,where to go, and they wont forget the most important thing --- how many boys and girls, if is more boys are going then will be not allowed (in this case I suspect that the person who post this question is a girl), I knew that what paresnts did are good for me aka this is for ur own good, but we are the very good friends, and the parents never believe that always thought that boy and girl that have left alone sure good something is happen or "not good".
How should I do, so that to make them no longer suspect on me... which is I am "clean"

and this answer was given.......

男女之间有单纯的友谊吗？绝对有。

Between the men and women has the pure friendship? absolutely have.(well I dont agree that)
真正的友情和真正的爱情一样单纯。

The true friendship and the true love are equally pure.
友情不等于爱情。

The friendship is not equal to love.
友情可以发展为爱情。

The friendship may develop is a love. (well that's possible)
有距离是友情，没距离了可能就升华为爱情了。

Has the distance is the friendship, has not been away from sublimated possibly into love.
男女之间友谊和爱情的界限是距离。

Between the men and women the friendship and love boundary is a distance.

welll for me cannot say that if u dont like that girl then the both of u cannot be friends .... what kind of world is this huh........

let me give u and example what if u are in a class which girls are more then boys or the other way(boys more than girls)... what are u gonna do..

if u a a boy... dont tell me that u are going to be friends wif boys only?but not the girls.......

if u a a girl... dont tell me that u are going to be friends wif girls only?but not the boys.......

think about it....